I agree about ikae worktops, they are rough as a bulls lug

. They've been put through one of those giant belt sanders I think. The wood is a bit tatty with large amounts of brown filler etc, but I did manage to achiev a good result with them, plus why not use up "scrap" for something like that instead of produce mdf or something with it?
I just fitted 3 oak ones 2 months ago. I let them aclimatise for about 4 or 5 weeks. I got a good finish with my ECE primus (top rate piece of kit even if it is german) and home made cabinet scrapers. After several hours scraping my hands turned deep purple/black due to tannin

They've had about 8 or 9 coats of oil (teak oil and danish also some boiled linseed, whatever was availiable). We've had no bother with stains etc. I wetted and raised the grain several times before oiling, final finish with finest emory papers, light sand after each oiling. I used a mason mitre with galvanised bolt clamps, plus a 3"x3/4" oak upstand plugged to the wall to cover any joint movement. I might get round to burnishing the surface, I tried that on some elm it looks great. Personally I like the lok of real wood any time even if its a
bit tatty as with the ikea tops. It acquires character with all the dents and scrapes etc, chipboard ones look naff
Makes me laugh when you see designers on telly or folks on ebay selling a 20" wide board "suitable for a worktop". It'll be cupped as a banana in no time. At least thin boards like the ikea ones will be more stable.