A quick glance at the manual throws up two lines that concern me:
"Hot and cold supply pressure should be balanced"
"If a water supply is fed by gravity then the
supply pressure should be verified to ensure the
conditions of use are appropriate for the valve."
The diagram shows a minimum head from the bottom of the cold water tank feeding the hot water cylinder to the top of the shower head to be 1m - I doubt you can achieve this if the shower head is on a wall, and water tank is sat above the cylinder in a cupboard?
Going by the diagram for a gravity fed system, your cold feed to the mixer must be from the same cold tank the feeds the cylinder. This is what will then provide equal pressure (although still a minimium of 1m head required for both to provide adequate pressure).